Many think that life changes when you get married, I have always had the feeling that everything would have been the same again between me and P. I think you're right, our first week of marriage was a worthy continuation of three years of the relationship based on much love and many, many miles.
Sunday, June 22, 2008 (the day after the wedding)
Zompa After dancing and the white dress to be without gloves, no shoes, no garter, no flowers and no makeup of hairdressing are collapsed at 4.30am. Four and a half hours after I felt asleep in our friends and family who ate breakfast downstairs, I thought it would be nice to sleep down to greet them, that indeed would be evaluated in the sleep was good manners to greet them down, I listened in my sleep my husband snoring with the rhythm of a Ferguson tractor and finally I decided to sacrifice sleep to the good reputation of our new family: I went down to greet everyone like a good fresh young bride who pretends to be fresh as a daisy, I think all things considered I dealt with situations of social relations in post ethyl been worse.
Later I was given the task to arouse my husband at the event, which reacted with the grace of an army attached to the shoulders, then realizing the gravity of the impending problem (9 family members carry the two of us + Montescano in Milan with a single machine) started his first day as husband falsely making fresh as a daisy Montescano between driver and the train of Pavia. The best emergency plan that could conceive of was: we take them by car in Pavia in groups of 3, then from there by train to Milano Centrale, from there walk to the hotel and then the two of us back in here, if in the meantime we have not dissolved under the sun at 40 degrees.
Meanwhile, I started one of my typical activities: packing, off course.
pressurized After all the wedding dress, veil and related course in the white wedding trolley, I shrunk the number of gifts received (but because before all they ask you if you have the wedding list and when you do half of the invited gives you what he wants? I do not know that it is an attack on the poor ergonomic trim the bride after the wedding day dozens of packages to carry?) And I busy all of our items to the ground floor, thinking that after all I had dealt with situations of physical exertion been in post ethyl worse.
the seventh round (180 km after then), I, P., his parents and all our pacchettame we packed like four elephants in a five hundred and we reached the station of Pavia. By now it was nearly three, the temperature was around 40 degrees, the couple had already become anything but fresh.
Come back to Pavia from Milan we ended up in my parents' house, sweaty and hungry media as two escaped to the desert. After dinner we turned on Italy - Spain, lying in the heat and fatigue. Find ourselves back on my bed, where we stayed at two in the last 3 years a lot of times it may seem strange after being married, but we seemed to finally return to normal after the last few days of fever.
Spain won on penalties. Donadoni did not pull Del Piero and Di Natale. Hate Donadoni. Total 210 km
P., Valentina 30, + 60 km made by train, 4.30 hours of sleep Monday 23
P. returned to Montescano to withdraw from advanced cases of wine party. Meanwhile, I started one of my typical activities: packing, off course. I
route to the married life with three trolley, in order of increasing magnitude: the white full of delicate objects, the blue and green full of books full of clothes, considering all the gift items we however, to enter into two cars to leave for our new home in a lovely small French village on the border with Geneva.
The trip runs between hills, mountains and castellozzi, every time we stop, the word tired is now used in so many different paraphrase a sign that there is enough to reiterate the point: we finally arrive home, about 350 km downstream. Father was right, the building is quite nice, in the Open, you see the mountains, the stars, feel the birds singing and feel the fragrance of flowers, the apartment is spacious and bright, but the upholstery is not can see. In the state of physical exhaustion, where there are already resigned to the thought that after the enormous effort that will make the move, we still hold the nylon all the floors, upholstery and give off white.
Total km 410 km made by car P., 350 Valentina, 8 hours of sleep (not bad, but to recover the fatigue of the last days it takes more)
Tuesday 24.
happened that caught the fever of the organization room, the search for an apartment where to live, appearance, the results of the examination by a lawyer, and both continue in this work, I to him in Milan and Brussels do not look for any company to make the move.
happened that P. two weeks earlier, when a coin-operated washing her things in the next town, that he had met Juan, a student unemployed eager to speak English and English in search of work. Juan
happened that Tuesday agreed to work for us two days, for 300 € more meals, to help us move.
happened that after having shot up like idiots for 10 charterers, we managed to rent a duchy and a ford to drive to Brussels, where load all our things, and bring in our new home.
Total km made by car, about 80 km, hours of sleep 7 (Not bad, but to recover the fatigue of the last days it takes more)
Wednesday 25.
Meeting with Juan at 7:30, leaving at 8 from the charterer, I take a passenger seat of the Duchy of armed cd, cooler full of water and magnum.
Juan makes some history saying that he understood € 400 and not 300 and what I smell now, but now we can not do otherwise. However Juan accepts € 300 and inserting in its place of leadership on Transit. Let's go.
Juan stops after 50 km on the motorway hard shoulder by a curve at 10 km. Pees. I already hate him, but now we can not do otherwise.
Juan is 50 km after the lights because you want to stop (P.per system designed to ensure that it stops again at a point in the case of the motorway) to pee. Repeats the story of 400 € but understands that it will be necessary to repeat a third time.
after 200 km (ignoring the lights of Juan 3 times), we stopped to eat, Juan took advantage to go to pee indoors even though he explains that what is less comfortable than doing it in the open air.
after 250 km (ignoring the lights of Juan 2 times), we pause to make diesel in Luxembourg, Juan plant there his truck at the pump dispenser to go to pee behind the cash dispenser, while I and P. we hold our own and P. is full for both vans. Juan back in time at least to move his truck on the apron and then finally we also grant entry to the bathroom.
now there are less than 250 km, the idea is to pull up to the house to begin with the afternoon light still make bundles of things in the kitchen (I) and screw cabinets and bed (the kids)
40 km from Brussels, Juan overtakes us and enter into a service area, ensure tree next to a friend and we can not do anything but wait.
finally get home and now our English assistant does nothing but complain that life is unfair, because he has not studied, because he does not have a job because he has a nice apartment, everything implying (later implying less) instead we have studied, we have a nice apartment and a job because we are lucky and life is an injustice. During the litany
Hispanic, I was the parcel from the kitchen and P. unscrewing the pieces ikea. Juan Meanwhile, we explained that he now can not work because they want the university of languages \u200b\u200bin September and already knows that by September the same time will not be able to study if a job, because he does not want to do manual labor, he wants to do work Developing if it is not Developing what is the point, and generally life is an injustice and those like us are lucky.
I feel my blood pulses to the brain while I and P. we sweat and we work in silence, while Juan seems to have totally forgotten that there is not free to do us a favor: for these two days I earn what I earned working a month ago a week from Monday to Friday Waking up at 6 and 12 hours after returning home, two thirds of what I earned a year and a half ago, working from Monday to Friday and returning home at 9.30 pm with 10 minutes lunch break, 300% more than I earned zero two years ago, working from Monday to Friday as a trainee in Pavia. In addition to his English pre-registered unemployed at the University of Grenoble takes 500 € net per month subsidy by the French state, deducted from the pockets of those who are fortunate enough to pay taxes.
flit from Edward for a pizza on the fly, which gives us a bottle of wine and Juan tells him that he is English, Spain has beaten Italy and that the Italians are all mafiosi, hahahha but laugh. Edward tells him that if in Sicilian revise it to him in his local pizza poisoning, Juan does not understand but it is less bold.
Let's go home.
At midnight, finished packs, threw myself on the mattress, cooked to sleep. P. I reached about four.
made 800 km, 5.30 hours of sleep for P, 9.30 for Valentina (but I feel like shit the same).
Thursday 26
At 9.30 am all up for the shower and then leave. Juan has not failed to notice me, P.stava while taking a shower, I fell asleep at midnight while they worked, I do not have done nothing all the time.
I know that P. if he felt he would have killed with his bare hands, but then I'd take him over the oranges in prison in Brussels and I would not even had a furnished apartment to stay between visits to the prison.
parties, decide to make 3 stops, not one more, there's piss taking.
The Duchy, P. I said that from midnight until nearly four worked alone with Juan chatting. He has dark circles fever but can not wait to get home.
During the lunch break, around Strasbourg, Juan ordered the double of us to eat (both paid by us), he repeats with a vengeance that life is an injustice, moans that we paid too little for all the work he has done, he rails about P. redbull redbull the drink because it is doping and then upon me, because the Italians are all mafiosi.
distributed. When we forget about Juan, we are tired but happy to be once again on the road during one of our businesses.
last stop planned Juan took advantage of when P. goes to pay to tell me (I do not open the door more, just down the window) that he will download only a van that then went to see the game, I tell them I must speak to Fr because these terms are not.
The situation is not good. At least 9
15 (start time playing against someone else Spain), we get the house.
Juan comes up and tells P. he's tired, that he has the balls full of us and download a single van and that he is in charge. P. says he was paid for work (which we had already decided to give him 50 euro more as a thank you to the end and had to give us the receipt of the last toll to reimburse it, another 50 €, and when Juan had € 250 of under 300 and had finished the work he would be found in the pocket 350). I try to call the police, but apparently the 113 Classic does not work here, I meet the firemen, who tell me that the police is 17.
Even Juan calls the police and began to drive like a madman in the square in front of the house, then stops to tell the neighbors who have gathered together for so much noise that we had promised him 450 euro, which we gave him a euro and we did sleep only 4 hours, the neighbors began to take advantage of the defenses of the poor.
When the cops arrive 4 Juan ended his van leaving lights and radio on (then the battery has not abandoned us, fortunately, but I was worried), two cops take him aside and began shouting at him of us by inventing the story of the little Match-exploited by the English Polish Italian wife capitalist mafia.
The other two cops come to us, with a calm Pl incredible (so when I explained that it was not working well the pots) explain the situation, we want at least documents and keys of the rented van as it was paid and put into Credit card guarantee of P., so we knew that Juan did not finish his work.
Juan yells that wants 50 € for reimbursement of tolls, P. refers it to him that since he has not finished the job. The police understand that even though the Spaniard sings better in French of us, the reason is on our side, neighbors are divided by a narrow majority in our favor.
I now surround the four henchmen English, patiently asking for the keys and documents, the English resistance and suddenly finds himself lying on the asphalt from the four little, apparently the cop ninja. We get the keys and documents and even English, asphalt, launches its latest litany: Valentina, you who went to bed early and get tired quickly, you would not want to spend the evening to unload the two trucks, you can not do it in two Give me those 50 € for reimbursement of tolls and there an exhaust me.
At that point I think all my anger has exploded, I became green and for the next 4 hours I had the incredible forces Hulk.
The Spaniard has gone up to 250 euro in your pocket, the game was over and now he has not seen her, the neighbors are gone, our owner has fallen to reassure us that he believes in good people, and I and P. we unloaded both vans. At about two in the morning the cops are retouched to ask if he would return to harass and Juan told us that they had been expelled from Switzerland and three times in France was reported to verbal aggression in a couple of people. P. will never go more in a laundromat probably for the rest of his days.
At four o'clock we finished our Déménagement, we probably have kept the neighbors awake, but since I have decided to take the side of Juan as a first impression, serves him well.
Spain has also won the semifinal.
facts Km 800, 5 hours of sleep.
Friday 27
At 9 am we got up to take the vans to the lessee, then the day is past model home: bed, fridge, refrigerator, bed, like two koalas made of eucalyptus.
45 kilometers and many hours of sleep.
Saturday 28 & Sunday 29. Back to life.
began to recover, we decide that we have until the end of July to clean the house, set for this weekend only 3 goals: to make 100% working, cooking, washing machines and to make the bath operating at 100%. For the rest, we can continue to sleep on mattresses on the floor, there has killed the first two months we were in Brussels and we had no money to buy the glorious ASPELUND IKEA from 129 € (which we bought the barrel of 20 cm the extent of the mattress and then sleep so, with around 20cm stave more on my side)
While the washing machine in 6 installments ruminate about thirty pounds of clothes filthy, P. organizing the bathroom and I finish the management of the kitchen.
With the idea of \u200b\u200bcreating a place to clean clothes at last, we set off to put the cabinets in the room and find that after bringing them into convenient pieces by one tonne a first dall'ikea the second floor without lift of the first apartment in Brussels, uprights and then dismantled to get them from the second floor without a lift to the van to the second home in Brussels, mounted and then taken without disassembling the truck from the second home in Brussels until Ambilly, loaded up the stairs two in the morning the other night, they are damn too large to pass from the hallway to the rooms. But an attempt to disassemble the poor by PAX 100 € (including shelves and doors, the cabinet practically disposable) does not hold the unscrewing and collapses. Requiem for our cabinets, we carry them in the rooms means removed, forgive them together with various screws and clips so that you take with each other and the wall, face dell'autoportanza, and the next move will leave them there.
Sunday evening in the little bar closer to home we find ourselves in a score in the final look of the Europeans: there are French, Romanian, Arabic and us, and as always happens when he plays Germany, we are all united and compact against.
Spain won Euro 2008, I wonder if for once Juan think that life is not always an injustice.
Km 0, 10 hours of sleep. P, after a year of lunches, weighs 80 kg again:-D 
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